#attachment
31 articles on attachment.
- Modern Pressures
Digital Distraction and Secure Attachment: How Screens Erode Your Emotional Safety Net
Digital distraction and secure attachment work against each other: why phone interruptions thin your felt safety, and the daily window that rebuilds it.
10 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
EFT-Based Couples Courses Online: How to Vet One and What to Avoid
EFT-based couples courses online range from the real thing to repackaged tips. Learn to spot genuine attachment-focused EFT and the red flags to avoid.
10 min read - Attachment
Adult Attachment Questionnaire: A Free Printable Version With a Scoring Guide
A free adult attachment questionnaire: a printable item set with an honest self-scoring guide mapping your answers to anxiety and avoidance.
10 min read - Attachment
The Amir Levine Attachment Workbook: Practical Exercises From 'Attached'
A practical Amir Levine attachment workbook: the core exercises from Attached, how to run them solo or with a partner, and where the four styles flatten.
10 min read - Attachment
Attachment Theory in Adult Relationships: What the Science Says (Plus a Downloadable PDF)
A rigorous, readable primer on attachment theory in adult relationships: from Bowlby to the modern two-dimensional model, plus a downloadable PDF guide.
11 min read - Attachment
Anxious-Preoccupied Dating Advice: How to Date Without Letting Anxiety Drive
Anxious-preoccupied dating advice that skips the games: spot protest behaviors early, screen for responsiveness, and let your standards set the pace.
10 min read - Attachment
How to Self-Soothe Anxious Attachment: 12 Techniques That Work Between Triggers
How to self-soothe anxious attachment: 12 techniques you practice between triggers, not mid-flood, so the surge has somewhere to go besides your partner.
11 min read - Attachment
How Avoidant Attachers Handle Conflict: The Shutdown, the Deflection, and the Exit
How avoidant attachers handle conflict: decode the shutdown, deflection, and exit as deactivating moves, and learn de-escalation that helps them stay.
10 min read - Attachment
How to Set Boundaries With an Avoidant Partner
How to communicate boundaries to an avoidant partner without triggering withdrawal: why pressure backfires, plus scripts that hold your ground.
11 min read - Attachment
Attachment Style Chart: The Four Patterns, Mapped
An adult attachment style chart maps four patterns across two axes, anxiety and avoidance. Here's an honest read of each, and what a chart can't tell you.
10 min read - Attachment
Anxious Attachment Triggers: A Checklist for Catching the Spiral Early
A checklist of anxious attachment triggers: the delayed texts, flat tones, and changed plans that fire your alarm, so you catch the spiral early.
11 min read - Communication
Emotional Safety Exercises for Couples: 5 Ways to Make Honesty Feel Safe
Emotional safety exercises for couples that make honesty feel safe: five repeatable practices, plus the moves that quietly destroy trust in one sentence.
11 min read - Attachment
Co-Regulation for Anxious-Avoidant Couples
Co-regulation exercises for anxious-avoidant couples: why your nervous systems escalate each other, and paced practices that calm both at once.
12 min read - Attachment
Dismissive-Avoidant Communication Style: Examples
Dismissive-avoidant communication decoded: what going quiet, retreating to logic, and needing space really signal, and how to reach them.
11 min read - Attachment
The Dismissive-Avoidant Emotional Needs Checklist
A dismissive-avoidant emotional needs checklist: the closeness, autonomy, and respect they want but can't ask for, and how to meet each.
10 min read - Attachment
Childfree Couples and Attachment Dynamics: How Not Having Children Shapes Your Bond
Childfree couples attachment dynamics: how being each other's sole secure base concentrates the bond, the upsides, the pressure points, what to tend.
10 min read - Modern Pressures
Digital Distraction and Childhood Attachment Styles: Why Some Partners React More Than Others
Digital distraction and childhood attachment styles, explained: why a partner's phone wounds some people far more, and how both sides can work with it.
12 min read - Modern Pressures
Digital Distraction and Couples Co-Regulation: How Screens Interrupt Your Nervous System Connection
Digital distraction quietly breaks co-regulation: the nervous-system attunement partners do for each other. Here's how a phone interrupts the loop.
11 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
EFT-Based At-Home Check-In Guide: Johnson's Hold Me Tight Conversations Adapted for Self-Study
An honest EFT-based at-home check-in guide: Sue Johnson's Hold Me Tight conversations adapted for self-study, what they can do, and where the ceiling is.
11 min read - Attachment
Fearful-Avoidant Boundaries in Relationships: Why They Dissolve and How to Rebuild Them
Fearful-avoidant boundaries dissolve because of competing schemas: why you collapse them under panic, and how to set ones that hold.
10 min read - Attachment
The Pursue-Withdraw Pattern: How to Break the Loop
The pursue-withdraw loop, explained: why the anxious-avoidant cycle isn't two flawed people, how to map your version, and the EFT move that interrupts it.
11 min read - Attachment
Free Avoidant Attachment Workbook: Exercises to Print
A free avoidant attachment workbook: non-pathologizing exercises to map your deactivation triggers and practice staying engaged when you'd rather pull away.
11 min read - Attachment
Fearful-Avoidant: Craving Intimacy but Retreating When It Arrives
Fearful avoidant attachment, explained: why you crave closeness yet retreat the moment it arrives, how to catch the switch mid-cycle, and what calms the alarm.
10 min read - Modern Pressures
Phubbing in Relationships: What the Research Says
Phubbing in relationships, by the numbers: what the peer-reviewed research actually found about phone-snubbing your partner, and the limits of the evidence.
10 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
How to Do Relationship Therapy on Yourself
How to do relationship therapy on yourself: what individual inner work can and can't fix, a structured self-guided process, and the honest limits.
11 min read - Attachment
Secure Base Relationship Exercises: 8 Ways to Build a Foundation
Secure base relationship exercises: what a secure base really is, why security is earned rather than innate, and 8 drills to practice this week.
10 min read - Attachment
Avoidant Deactivation: Triggers, Signs, and What Helps
What triggers deactivation in dismissive- and fearful-avoidant partners: a research-grounded checklist, with what helps once the door has started to close.
10 min read - Attachment
Anxious-Avoidant Cycle: Exercises to Break It
The anxious-avoidant cycle from both sides: what each partner feels, why it persists, and the evidence-based exercises that actually interrupt it.
29 min read - Attachment
Attachment Styles in Adult Relationships: A Guide
The four attachment styles in adult relationships explained, with the research, real examples, and what to do when your pattern keeps resurfacing.
27 min read - Attachment
Stan Tatkin: Anchors, Islands, and Waves Explained
Stan Tatkin's PACT dating principles (Anchors, Waves, and Islands) explained, with a practical guide to dating each type without losing yourself.
8 min read - Communication
Couples Communication Exercises to Do at Home
Couples communication exercises you can do at home: scripts for hard conversations, repair after a fight, and the patterns that predict lasting closeness.
26 min read